Avoid jargon - use simple, positive language

Do say	Don't say
Party based/based / confrontational	Participatory/darticipatory/deliberative democracy
Informed/Informed / honest conversation	Discussion,Deliberation,discussion,deliberation, Debatedebate, Finding common groundconsultation
Listening to / Learninglearning from each other
Finding common ground
Brave, Courageous	Radical